Your Thoughts

 

Below are comments received by MVA. To protect the privacy of the individuals that submitted these comments, MVA has removed their last names.
 

1/25/12

Name:  Adrian

Message:  Maureen - Thanks so much for your interview on CBC's The Current this morning - I have been concerned for some time about traveling to Mexico though have never been and certainly do not wish to go. I shall certainly pass on your website to people I know are considering Mexico as a holiday destination. Fortunately our warm weather destination now is Hawaii as our daughter and son-in-law live there and we're going in five days! I was checking out your links which are good especially the gov't ones on Mexican travel warnings - however the one on spring break for students is rather dated and does not have the most recent (Jan09) requirements for entering the US by any means - air, and, or sea - requiring passport or other specified document. Thanks for keeping this site going, it is just unfortunate that you lost your son in order to start doing this to warn everyone about the dangers of Mexico.

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1/25/12

Name:  Jennifer

Message:  Hello Maureen I heard you on the CBC this morning. On Jan 3 1993 I determined that I would never visit Mexico. Our much loved minister and his wife took a last minute vacation there after the Christmas rush. Bus drivers were and perhaps still are unregulated, and when theirs pulled out to pass on a slippery road on the way to see the pyramids, the bus went off the road, crashed into a light standard, which toppled on them and incinerated some of them. The driver was also speeding. Many people died.

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1/25/12

Name:  Claudia

Message:  Hello there, I was just listening to you and your sad story about your son Nolan on CBC Radio. I read about the other victims and am stunned at how many people are listed there. It blows my mind. Good on you to start this website. I have not been affected by anything like this nor do I wish to and my heart goes out to you and all the other families. I would find it interesting to compare these "Mexico" statistics to numbers from other island resorts and vacation spots. It might be a good way to prove that it is indeed dangerous to travel to Mexico. Not sure if there are any statistics like that. I do hope that the governments travel advisories will start to reflect the true dangers.

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1/25/12

Name:  SCHELLEY

Message:  Greetings, I just heard your story on the CBC (from Canada).I wish to share my deepest sympathy in the passing of your son.  I also wish to thank you for telling your story so bravely and launching this informative site in honor of Nolan. Keep up your strength and push hard as you lobby the Bills so needed. Blessing

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1/24/12

Name:  Katie

Message:  just yesterday news broke of a Canadian woman severely beaten in a 5-star Mexican resort in Mazatlan.  Every bone in her face was broken.  Canadians have been being killed and hurt in Mexico for a long time now.  in 2010 there was an explosion at another all inclusive resort in which 5 Canadians were killed.  It was due to natural gas and the hotel being built in a way that was illegal.  the hotel authorities also stopped ambulances from getting to the resort because of feared bad press.  Also, another Canadian woman was found murdered on a beach near Mazatlan with her boyfriend.  I think people should boycott Mexico, it’s too dangerous.  I've never been there, and don't plan on going.
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December 3, 2011

Name:  melissa

Message:  I LIVE IN MEXICO, I'M AMERICAN & HAVE LIVED HERE SINCE 2005 WITH MY HUSBAND. MY MOTHER IS FROM PERU BUT CAME TO THE STATES AT AGE 19, SO I HAVE ALWAYS SPOKE SPANISH FLUENTLY. EVEN THOUGH I HAVE AN FM2 IMMIGRATION CARD, I NEVER SEASE TO BE FRIGHTENED AT HOW MUCH MEXICANS DESPISE AMERICANS. IT ACTUALLY SCARES ME. I HAVE LIVED WITH MY HALF ITALIAN, HALF PERUVIAN HUSBAND IN EUROPE (THEY HATE AMERICANS THERE JUST AS MUCH) BUT I AM STARTING TO THINK OF MOVING TO PERU BECAUSE HOW CAN I HAVE A CHILD IN COUNTRY THAT HATES ME TO MY VERY CORE?!  I HAVE LIVED IN MEXICO CITY, GUADALAJARA, SAN CRISTOBAL DE LAS CASAS, CHIAPAS, AND EVERY BODY FEELS THE SAME ABOUT HOW AMERICANS "STOLE" CALIFORNIA, ARIZONA, TEXAS, AND NEW MEXICO, AND HOW WE ARE THE ENEMY. EVEN THOUGH I HAVE LIVED HERE FOR OVER 6 YEARS, I AM FRIGHTENED AS A WHITE AMERICAN WOMAN EVERY TIME I TAKE A RADIO TAXI, I ALWAYS ALWAYS GET RIPPED OFF WITH THE CHANGE, AND I THINK I WAS FORCED TO HAVE AN UNNECESSARY OPERATION IN THE PAST IN GUADALAJARA. AND LET ME TELL YOU, THEY COULD CARE LESS THAT I LIVE HERE AND AM A RESIDENT OR THAT I AM HALF LATINA! AND I DON'T THINK WHEN THEY ARE GIVING YOU BACK LESS CHANGE THAT YOU COULD BE CANADIAN! I THINK WE ARE UNLUCKY TO LIVE IN THESE TIMES BUT THE WORLD IS EVEN SMALLER FOR AMERICANS, I HERE COLUMBIA IS ABSOLUTELY A RIDULOUS CHOICE FOR AMERICAN TOURISTS, AND EVEN IN AUSTRALIA HATES US EVEN AS WELL.  

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December 2, 2011

Name:  Micki

Message:  The problem of crime and its cover up is not confined to the resorts on the coast.  I recently visited the Lake Chapala area, which is inland, near Guadalajara.  There are many Canadian and American ex-pats retiring there.  Everyone connected with protecting property values is covering up the extent of crime, which includes home break ins accompanied by murder. Realtors and home owners call the place "paradise" in spite of the growing rate of murders and drug cartel activity.  There is censorship.  Some of the Internet forums in the area delete news about the crimes.  Gringos who speak up about it are scorned and shunned. Journalists throughout Mexico are killed for reporting cartel crimes.  A Canadian couple brings down prospective home buyers for "educational" programs that encourage buying a home by telling one everything one needs to know about relocating to the area - except that the crime rate is as high as it it.  They get a referral fee when their clients buy a house.  Maybe they are all tanked up on delusions, remembering how safe the area used to be, if it ever really was.  Or maybe some of them just don't mind betraying the trust of fellow gringos who rely on them for guidance about relocating to Mexico.  I feel disgusted by it.
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September 23, 2011

Name:  pam

Message:  I think I can answer Cheryle's question about why people go there.  Mexico does offer a great vacation for the cost.  They have more all-inclusive at reasonable rates than anywhere else and the airfares have been reasonable.  That being said, I cannot believe that people send their most precious commodity--their children--into the middle of a drug war zone.  The cartels are everywhere not just in the border towns.  But an even bigger concern statistically is their healthcare and police issues if something were to happen.   The story of the hotel security guard at a luxury resort murdering a couple should scare the bejesus out of everyone.  I worked at a travel agency and YES, we were told to tell people that everything was fine.  I refused to do that.  It's all about the money.

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September 15, 2011

Name:  cheryle

Message:  why are we pouring our money in the way of tourism into a country that is out of control ? I do not understand. Just stop going and spending money !! There are wonderful places in N A where you can spend your money and feel safe. Just tell us why people continue to put up with it.
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August 30, 2011

Name:  Scott

Message:  Question: first, GOD BLESS YOU for creating this site.  And my deepest sympathies for your loss......My buddies and I do a trip every year and next summer they want to go to Cabo.  From what you've heard, is it safe? I have been looking at threads and most say that it's mainly the border towns that is getting the drug violence, but still, I am concerned.  What do you think?
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August 24, 2011

Name:  Jayne

Message:  Thank you. My soon to be sophomore in college came to me asking permission to go with her friends on spring break to Mexico because their were "all-inclusive" deals. I said absolutely not for many reasons but this said plenty. I have sent her the site and the youtube video. She isn't happy but knows that if I am adamant it is for good reason. So sorry for all the losses depicted here and elsewhere.
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August 22, 2011

Name:  rich

Message:  A friend of mine is planning a trip to Mexico via one of the cruise lines.  I've been giving him some tips about how to avoid a compromising situation once he's there.  I stumbled across this website and spent some time reading the posts.  The stories conjured up some memories of traveling there extensively in my 20's.  There were many, many times, I felt like my safety was in jeopardy, and I was looking for a link on your site to share my experience.  I couldn't find a link. Am I missing something?  Anyhow, good stories to pass onto folks considering a trip to Mexico...Thanks.
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August 13, 2011

Name:  Joe

Message:  I had a comment on the travel industry hiding this information on a travel website and it was removed within hours.  Publish a list of travel websites censoring comments.

(Reply from Mexico Vacation Awareness: The website that Joe is referring to is Trip Advisor. Any time someone mentions the MVA website it is removed promptly. One thing some of you may not know is that Trip Advisor is owned by Expedia.com. There is a definite conflict of interest.)
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June 1, 2011

Name:  Diana

Message:  I have been reading all of the comments here and I do have to agree with one person that pointed out a very good point.  Most of the vacation resorts are located in small towns where the medical care is not great to their citizens so don't expect anything better than the service that they get.  I am a Mexican Citizen and I have been living in the US for 23+ years and I know the difference first hand, when I take my two sons on vacation I NEVER go to any vacation resort that is mostly directed to tourists, the people there all they want is your money and they will do anything and everything to get it one way or another.  If my sons want to go to the beach I take them to Puerto Vallarta where they have bigger hospitals and real doctors or I take them to Veracruz where is not a tourist trap but a nice place to visit without the worries of getting ripped off.  Many people think that the vacation resorts are the safest, well they're not that's where you get ripped off the  e most, specially in all those popular vacation spots.  Mexico like any other place has their good and bad parts, if you look for a tourist targeted part of mexico expect the unexpected and it's a sure thing that you will get ripped off, if you want to go to mexico pick a non-tourist place, get health insurance before you leave and don't expect to be treated like royalty in Mexico to them you are just a piggy bank.

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May 27, 2011

Name:  Rita

Message:  I just wanted to express my condolences for the loss of your loved ones and thank you for this informative site.  My friend is planning a 50th birthday party in Mexico for a group of women, and I will not be going after visiting your site and reading the news reports.  (I will also try to get my friend to change the location.)  I always knew Mexico was a bit unsafe, but I was unaware of the lack of safety and medical training and the disregard for human lives.  I will diligently inform my friends and families about the dangers of traveling to Mexico.  Our family went on a Western Caribbean Carnival cruise several years ago, and it was very scary to see the fences and men with very large guns protecting Mexico’s tourist area.  We embarked on a bus ride to a beach as part of our excursion.  The bus traveled down a very long road and did so at an alarming rate of speed.  All of the tourists were looking at each other and were very uncomfortable and somewhat frightened. I think the bus driver had to speed to avoid potential criminal activity.  I will never go to Mexico again.  Thank you.

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May 1, 2011

Name:  Denise

Message:  Aloha: My mom and 2 girlfriends have planned and paid for a vacation to Cozumel, Mexico. While speaking with a friend a few moments ago, he told me that there had been Americans killed in Cancun in the past 2 weeks. Please honestly tell me:IS IT SAFE TO GO TO CANCUN/COZUMEL AT THE END OF THE MONTH. Please respond ASAP or direct me to where I should go. US State Dept warns for Northern borders, west coast and Mexico city are a NO GO. I am really worried as we booked this many months ago.  Mahalo for your response. 
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April 10, 2011

Name:  Jen

Message:  I live in Mexico and was reading your site. It's very informative but I'm shocked at people's expectations and lack of knowledge of this country. Most resort areas are in small towns and don't have the resources of a large city. EMT's here are rarely trained and it's wrong to even call them an EMT. There are excellent hospitals and care in large cities. I'm shocked that people expect hospitals here to take the US health insurance. You need to use this site to educate people on what Mexico has and doesn't have. I'm just so shocked that people would even travel to Acapulco. It's one of the most dangerous areas here. This is not the US and why people think they will get the same service here as they would in the US is unbelievable. Don't they ever question why the trip is so cheap? On the other hand, an area like Puerto Vallarta has world class hospitals and people receive very good care, but don't expect all the doctors to speak English. Please use this site to also inform people what to expect in Mexico and different areas of the country. People here are not trained as you would expect in the US. A lifeguard is not trained. People who help someone medically are at risk of being charged with murder should the person die. There are dozens of others things that people need to know so help save some lives by informing people what to watch out for and what to expect. Under no circumstance use my name or email address. I have to live here and identifying me puts me at risk.

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April 1, 2011

Name:  patty

Message:  People, please, please purchase travel insurance when  you leave the country.  Everyone thinks that nothing will happen but it does and insurance would help people in so many of these health related events.

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March 23, 2011

Name:  Molly

Message:  I am writing on behalf of my daughter who does not want her ex- husband to take their 2- 6 year old twin girls to Mexico for a 10 day or so vacation. The pretense is family, a distant cousin who married a man from Mexico.  They would fly into Mexico City and drive to Tepoztlan. She is extremely concerned for their safety. He is taking her to court to force her to give him the passports. Apparently news articles are treated as hearsay by the court and we will need verifiable statistics and/or facts to go to court with. I have called the state department and our congressman with no good results. Can you help me find the verifiable sources I need?
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March 22, 2011

Name:  Jennifer

Message:  Hi There - I am taking a trip to Mexico next month and I wanted to thank you for your site so that I am more aware of the inner workings of the Mexican authorities, health care and hotel practices. 

With any travel to a 3rd world country (not just Mexico) there is always a level of risk we incur by choosing to go there.  Part of the issue is the "ignorance is bliss" statement - we assume because these areas are heavily populated with tourists that we are safe and that the authorities / health care are just as they are at home which is not the case. 

I know the purpose of your site is to deter people from going; however, in the event that many - such as myself, will come to your website for enlightenment it may be useful to indicate how to create a safer trip.  It’s not always possible, but there are things I have researched to help create a safer experience.

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March 18, 2011

Name:  Oleg

Message:  I am truly sorry for what happened to these families. Please accept my condolences. I would like to add that I am amazed by some of the commenter’s' stupidity. After reading these horrific stories they still ask for your advice whether it is safe to travel to Mexico. Unbelievable! Don't they get the point after reading these stories? Thank you so much for creating this site. I've planned a trip to Mexico with my wife and my parents so many times but now I am sure I am not going to. God bless you and all the families that lost their loved ones.

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March 16, 2011

Name:  Kitty Company:  USA TODAY

Message:  I am doing a story on safety in Mexico and was referred to your website. These are stories that are shocking. May I chat with you sometime this week or next? I am focusing on Cancun and am very sorry for your loss. Kitty

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March 6, 2011

Name:  Jennifer

Message:  I am so sorry for the loss of these young people. After having been on several cruises to the Riviera Maya area, my husband and I were contemplating a family vacation to the resorts. Your site has certainly given me pause for thought. Unfortunately, Mexico is very much behind the times and this isn't a secret but I think it’s good to reiterate to others that you can't expect the same treatment there that you would here in the US. there are very different cultural ideals and standards and the resources are simply subpar.

Secondly, I think it needs to be said that if people are going to vacation in the US and especially abroad that we need to drop the "I'm on vacation" mentality and remain vigilant with regard to our safety and that of our children. Children need to be supervised at all times and adults need to be free of alcohol before getting in the water or wondering around on balconies.

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March 4, 2011

Name:  Natasha

Message:  I only been to Mexico on a cruise ship and was actually thinking about Cancun vacation because my cousin and her husband go there all the time and they love it. But after listening to KFI program and your story I changed my mind. No more Mexico for me and my family. Thank you for this site.

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February 25, 2011

Name:  suzanne

Message:  I'm afraid for my best friend’s daughter who plans on getting married at the Gran Porto Real Resort, Riviera Maya, Mexico in December of this year. I've been invited, but don't think I'm going due to the ongoing and increasing murders.  They are targeting Americans even more now and I'm afraid for all of those who are planning on going.  I want to get this serious point across to them without offending them and think that I'm trying to ruin their wedding.  Would you happen to have any suggestions?

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February 23, 2011

Name:  mark

Message:  We booked a vacation for spring break before we learned of the dangers. We are staying in Las Brasis, a luxury home in a  gated community on a mountain.  What is the risk level.  Is there reason to be concerned if we stay in the resort?
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February 20, 2011

Name:  patty

Message:  Please update your site more often.   I think you do very good work.
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February 10, 2011

Name:  mari

Message:  I travel to Mexico once a year, we go to Rocky Point Mexico. I have never had any problems, but let me tell you this website has opened my eyes. I am suddenly feeling scared to go back to Mexico.
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February 9, 2011

Name:  Carlos

Message:  First of all, allow me to say that I am sorry for your loss.  I live vicariously these type of stories every day, through my clients. I am writing you to ask if you would be interested in publishing some of my clients' stories.  My name is Carlos I am a licensed attorney in Mexico, and I represent exclusively, foreigners injured, scammed, or doing business in Mexico.  Many of my clients' stories have similarities to those posted on your site.  They may help to bring more awareness about vacationing in Mexico.  While I have helped many clients recovering money for their injuries, and many others recover money they "invested",  many others will never recover what they lost,  their peace of mind.  While I was born and raised in Mexico City (living in Austin, TX for 11 years now),  it makes me sick to learn every day of the situations that travelers endure in Mexico.  I am trying to do my part by bringing some "justice" to my clients,  but just like you,  many of their lives will never be the same. If you want me to direct them to your site, please let me know.

Again, I am sorry for your loss.  Carlos
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February 4, 2011

Name:  Julia

Message:  I was just getting ready to plan a Girls trip to Cabo.  We are all moms in our late 30's to early 40's.  I am now reconsidering.  Is it really dangerous as long as we stay at our resort? or is it safe to travel into town.  Most people I know think the "resort" towns are very safe.  Your thoughts??
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January 31, 2011

Name:  Jacqueline

Message:  I read of your heartbreaking story through a link on tripadvisor and send my condolences to you and other families. We had planned a family trip to mexico but cancelled and will now holdiay in St Lucia. I live in the UK (Scotland) and informing people of your website. More young people are travelling to mexico from the Uk and I worry for their safety. My thoughts and prays are with you and the other families. God Bless.

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January 31, 2011

Name:  Vicki

Message:  I watched the Sun Jan 30th CBS documentary on Mexico. I work for a large Crown Corp of which hundreds of coworkers frequent Mexico, and insist "it's not like that where we go" .. "and that Mayan Riveira is safe".

I wish to extend my condolences to ALL suffering loss and/or aftermath of the obvious corruption of Mexican authorities, 'so-called medical professionals', hotel staff, etc ALL OVER Mexico .. what a shamfeul disgrace to your culture.  One thing for sure, I will NEVER EVER consider going ANYWHERE in Mexico and will most certainly share this website and info with anyone who even mentions contemplating going to Mexico.  There are many many countries who need our tourism dollars .. let's give them to those who deserve it and are to even acknowledge the 'lives & people' behind the dollars!

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January 29, 2011

Name:  Roger

Message:  People are stupid to even think about a vacation to Mexico. Friends of ours just got back from there and had a experience where a cab driver took them on a 4 hour detour that nearly cost them their flight back.

- It was supposed to be a 30 minute trip to the airport.

- Driver was not english

- Cab was not safe

MEXICO FAST: YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT WILL HAPPEN TO YOU WHILE THERE!!!!!!

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January 29, 2011

Name:  Mohamed

Message:  I agree that if we are going to send our money in Mexico, the Mexican authorities need to step up and protect those who are bringing them all these tourism dollars that would cripple them if Mexico was boycotted but on the other hand, we should also look at educating our young on International travel perils.  I have been to Meexico 5 times to date since 2003 and have never had any issues what so ever, but I have seen onevery trip how very poorly behaved Canadians and Americans can be when they get to Mexico.  Make no mistake, Mexico is a dangerous place but knowing that ahead of time, don't go there and get falling over drunk to where you cannot protect yourself, never leave your friends alone, and do not talk down to the locals. Start looking at our behavior and the government should look at their behavior in how they handle these tragic issues.

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January 28, 2011

Name:  bob

Message:  Start a section for safety reviews of the resorts. This is where people can submit a comment like this one but about the overall safety of the resort. With some dynamic content like that and the word "review" your site will begin to show up in the Google search results when people search for Mexican resorts and resort reviews.

You want to build a key word list and some content that will make your site appear when people are just beginning to shop for a Mexican vacation.

Be sure to include the words "review, reviews resort, resorts" in your meta tag keyword list.

As well eliminate the phrases from the meta tag key word list.

All of the words should be single and separated by a comma.

Avoid using the same word twice.

So something like this in your meta tag:

``tripadvisor apple vacations, Cancun Vacations Mexico hotels, Apple Cancun Mexico vacations`` Should look like this:

``tripadvisor, apple, vacations, cancun, mexico, hotels, `` All of the keywords are still there but now only once, this gives your site credibility with the googlebot that indexes your site and will help increase it’s     rank in the search results. What is even more important is that each key word you use actually appears on your site in the content.

The more often the key word appears and the more unique your content is, the higher your search rankings and overall a much better chance of people finding your site. That`s my 2 cents on getting better exposure.

The reason I write to you is when I traveled in Mexico with my 2 kids and wife I was astounded at the number of building code violations. I spent quite a bit of time protecting my kids from exposed wiring, faulty plumbing and just out right negligent building methods and non-existent building maintenance.I am very sorry for your loss.

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Name:  Ed

January 26, 2011 

Message:  I heard your story on KFI. My heart and prayers go out to you. As an American of Mexican heritage I applaud you for this website. I haven't traveled to Mexico in quite some time because of the ongoing violence, and just when I thought it couldn't get worse it does. Keep up the great work. Mexico used to be such a wonderful place to visit, I have fond memories as a child visiting but now, I wouldn't even step into Tijuana. God Bless you and everyone who told you stories. I have already passed your website to many of my friends and family.

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Name:  Julie

January 26, 2011

Message:  As I drove home from work last night I tuned into The John and Ken Show and heard the interview with Nolan's mom. I was spellbound by her tragic story. My husband and I own a fractional ownership in Cabo San Lucas. We are and have been boycotting Mexico because of stories such as these. To continue utilizing our vacations we have swapped our weeks to travel other places such as Canada, as well as places within our wonderful US where there is so much to see and do

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Name:  Amanda

January 26, 2011

Message:  I am so sorry for the senseless loss of all of these precious people’s lives.  Thank-you for the enormous eye-opening information.  I have been very wary of seriously considering Mexico as a holiday destination but am now making sure that everybody I know has the information about these awful stories and I know that I will never go or take my family there.  Thank-you for sharing what are truly heartbreaking stories.  I hope that you can find some solace in helping to prevent at least some further ones.  Amanda.

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Name:  connie

January 26, 2011

Message:  I live in San Diego and heard you on the radio on the way home from work. I posted your website on my Facebook. I have felt that Mexico wasn't safe for quite awhile especially what has happened to the southern part of Arizona. Thanks and keep up the good work with your website.

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Name:  Kristin

January 26, 2011

Message:  To start off, my heart goes out to you, as a mother, I can't imagine.  I heard this on KFI and immediately went on. As I have gone on the allinclusive vacation in Mexico and have "thought" about doing it again, I won't now. However, my suggestion would be if you had links naming the different resorts, towns etc., in away categorizing the crimes.  I was curious about the resort where we stayed and it would be an effective tool to these places if they were named. Keep up the strength and courage! All the best.

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Name:  Dave

January 26, 2011

Message:  I went to the Oasis Cancun website.  If you make them aware of what is happening, would they be liable for not keeping Americans safe and aware of what is happening there? I will make them aware in the morning.

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Name:  Julie

January 25, 2011

Message:  I am outraged by your loss and the circumstances, I am so sorry. They also use rubbing alcohol in the margaritas and as "shots" and an ounce of that can blind you. It can really mess you up. It is cheap too. A friend of mine was slammed into a window in tj and the federales said "it was YOUR body that broke it, you have to pay now, or go to TJ jail for (whatever the time frame was)"...

They also rush up to you put a blanket or shawl on you to try to get you to buy it, but then they knock something over and make you pay for it, saying you did it with the blanket. I have heard that one numerous times. I was walking in tj with a friend of mine a 6 federales jumped out of a truck and surrounded us and wanted to take me away (I'm female) and I could understand their spanish, and I started SCREAMINGGG!! and they left me alone, and took my friend put him in the truck, and I just walked back to the parking lot where his car was an sat there for about an hr and a half. Then he came walking up with no shoes. They took him behind a building, took all his money and his shoes and let him go. They told me they had to take him because he was walking in proximity to a know drug dealer, and they pointed at someone across the street down the way...

Also, a friend of a friend was walking with a person and the federales jumped out of a van and said "you were masturbating in public" and took him away... (he was not)...

I have heard numerous stories of how women are raped and then the doctors at the hospitals rape them too. They are morally bankrupt humans.

BOYCOTT THOSE GENETICALLY EVIL PEOPLE and their filthy country.

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Name:  Stephanie

January 25, 2011

Message:  The web-site really is wonderful-what an eye opener!! The CBC here in canada had a documentary on travel in Mexico-check it out.

I don't want to leave my phone number. Thank you. Thank you so much for exposing the horrors.

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Name:  Michael

January 25, 2011

Message: I saw your site mentioned on the news last night here in Toronto, Canada. After having a look I just want to say that I found the accounts I read to be beyond heart-breaking.

I used to go to Mexico often; I was usually drawn by the great beaches, good food, and fun night life. Ten years ago it wasn't as bad as it is today. Now I prefer to go to places like Cuba or the Dominican... I even felt safer in Colombia than in Mexico...

In general Mexicans are a bunch of lazy opportunists who would sell out their own family members to make a fast buck.

I am sorry for the tragedy you have suffered. As a parent I can't even begin to imagine how you must feel.

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Name:  Francesca

January 25, 2011

Message:  I am so sorry for your loss and thank you so very much for bringing awareness to the false sense of security at Mexican Resorts.  I grow up in Texas and have been long aware of all the problems and corruption in Mexico. After many, many years, I thought I would give Mexico another try taking my family including younger children.  It was only a day after arriving that a couple from Canada were murdered in the resort next to us.  I had to call home to obtain information as no one on the resort would tell us what had happened.  I will NEVER go to Mexico again and will advise everyone I know not to go.

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Name:  Doug

January 25, 2011

Message:  Please expand your site to include the sense less dangers to Canadians. We see and hear of deaths almost weekly and cannot believe how many go thinking that the all inclusives are safe. Just had fellow and wife gunned down in Mazatlan near his hotel, women and husband raped and beaten by POLICE near Cancun.

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Name:  Kate

January 9, 2011

Message:  I am so sorry to read about these painful events. We live in Baja Mexico and have (knock on wood) so far had no events that would test the goodwill or medical expertise of our friends and neighbors. Your stories have reminded me that we've been very lucky, and reinforced the imperative to be very careful in all our activities and relations with the local population. We have seen nothing but kindness among the people we know, but if worse came to worst, the fact is we don't know what would happen. It's definitely a different country here, and it's important that all visitors (short or long-term) understand that one's safety is one's own responsibility--and if that fails, things don't work the same way they do at home. Hope you get the word out. At the same time, informed tourists should have no trouble discerning that many, many places in Mexico remain the vacation paradise they see advertised. Carefully review hotel policies, talking in person to hotel staff if necessary, asking specifically about medical training for on-site personnel (if you're worried about that). Find out for yourself beforehand where the nearest best hospital is, and demand that you be taken there if it becomes necessary. Learn enough Spanish to communicate with people and make your wishes/worries known at the earliest sign of trouble. As in many things, a "carefree" vacation is just advertising. You always have to take care of yourself. If events conspire to make that impossible, perhaps the planning that you do before vacation will help.

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Name:  Tom

December 31, 2010

Message:  Like your website and more people should just stay out of Mexico. Thanks, tom

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Name:  Gail

December 18, 2010

Message:  My daughter who is 20 and a 6 month old baby girl. The father lives in a small village on top of a mountain 4 hrs outside of Oaxaca Mexico. She insists she and the baby are going to travel there since he cannot get back across the border and has never seen his child. I am terrified of her going there but she insists that it is safe where he lives. How can I convince her that it is not safe and trouble really has increased in Mexico. She thinks it is all media hype blown up and not that bad. If you can help me I would really appreciate it, I am really scared for my daughter and granddaughter!

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Name:  Jean

December 5, 2010

Message:  I want to thank you for creating this site and sharing your pain. I am sickened by all the  sad and senseless loss of life reported here.  I would like to know if there are others out there who may have observed the events of the recent Mexico explosion at the Grand Riviera Princess Hotel, observed how people were being treated (the injured, their families, other hotel guests) or  who may have reported smelling the gas to the hotel management/other authorities.
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Name:  John

November 17, 2010

Message:  I was supposed to travel to Mexico in December and stay till Jan 2011. I was going to a WEDDDING in Guadalajara, and then on to P/V for the New Year Holiday- I have now decided to NOT GO. This is why- I frequently travel to Laredo, TX and the walk over to N. Laredo. In the last 7 months alone- south Texas has become a ARMED CAMP! This is no joke- police, ICE, and border patrol are everywhere! The slightest thing gets you stopped and searched or interviewed by law enforcement. I work out and so they think I am going to buy steroids-so I get stopped all the time. Yesterday, I was stopped by ICE because I had "baggie" camo shorts on.  Once they found out I was a retired Police officer they LECUTURED ME about the dangers ALL OVER MEXICO.  The final word is "The Mexican Government has lost all control." This is clear by an article in the Laredo paper which stated they are using "explosives" to attack and kill the Mexican police and army now. This was clear by the Mexican army in full on battle gear. Then you read about the missing and dead tourist-then you read about how "corrupt" the government is-then you listen to the border patrols statements-No I am staying in America- maybe go to a safer place-LIKE Baghdad or Afghanistan
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Name:  sue

November 2, 2010

Message:  my husband and i are going to puerto varlata mexico next week.... and im scared after finding this website today and reading all the sad stories. we have a time share, so we will  be in acapolco too in january... i dont wanna go but hubby says dont worry.... what advice can you give me? we were in mexico twice last year and didnt have any problems luckily.. im glad i found this website, our prayers go out to everyone ...thank you

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Name:  Lea

November 2, 2010 

Message:  I cant believe ppl would actually come onto this site, read it & then ask ..I booked a trip should I go, is it safe?? like hello you are asking the wrong ppl. you have one life ppl, you have been warned, don't take the chance. To everyone that has lost a loved one in Mexico...god bless u

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Name:  Jorge

October 16, 2010

Message:  I think I have some answers for you, I live in Mexico I’m a lawyer and a volunteer paramedic, and I think I can tell you the WHYs of a lot of the f*ed up things here, maybe that will help you deal with the grief, at least know why they acted so bad to all of you. Believe it or not, the paramedics and lawyers in Mexico we hate the same things that happen here, so if I can help you please don’t hesitate to write.

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Name:  Concerned Person In Bmore

October 15, 2010

Message:  I think you should try to get in touch with the family of Mickey Goodwin in Texas.. he drowned at some Caribe resort in mexico Tuesday. My friend was there.. and told me there were NOT red flags... there was not a lifeguard on the beach. The sky did get dark, but there was no one there... once he went under... went he came back up his body bobbed in the water.. drifting further and further while people tried to get some net to get him. FINALLY a hotel worker ran out of the restaurant and swam out, pulling his lifeless body back. Just like your other stories, there were no trained personnel at the hotel. A guest who knew cpr performed it until the paramedics came (around a half hour). I am a member of the media, and really can't give more info about me... but when she told me, this site immediately came to mind... when I googled it, I see his name and that he "drowned off of a Cancun beach despite red flags warning of dangerous waters" Just investigate this.. again maybe he does take some blame (not to blame him...but he was drinking so maybe not in the best state of mind" but THAT is precisely why medical staff and lifeguards should be present... I will see if my girlfriend who was there would be willing to speak to you... if so I will refill this form with her info. Sorry to be so shady and anonymous....

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Name:  Kirk

October 3, 2010

Message:  VOSH -- (Volunteer Optometric Services to Humanity) is a non profit organization which travels the world setting up eye camps. In our organization, there are 38 state chapters, 16 student chapters and 13 international chapters examining the poor and providing free eye-wear. Our Minnesota Chapter of 20 doctors and support people are planning to travel to Mazatlan, Mexico and then traveling to the village of Teacapan where we will be working January 8th through the 15th 2011.

Hour host group, the Lions club will put us up in Mazatlan the first night and we will travel by day to Teacapan to do our volunteer charitable work and stay at the local hotel. Even though we have traveled the world and with all the travel advisories for Americans not to travel to foreign countries, as far as I know there has not been any major issues with any of our chapters and their travels.

Is there any issue or problem that you know of in that area or what precaution should we take. Hire armed guards to travel with us? Notify the Mexican Government of our mission? Or any other suggestion you might have. Is Mexico so violent to Americans that our whole organization should cancel all charitable missions the country of Mexico?

Thank you

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Name:  patty

October 2, 2010

Message:  First, I would like to say that I am a travel agent and have been in the business for over 30 years.  I've been to Mexico many times and lately I too, feel concern about traveling there.  While accidents can happen anywhere...please, please purchase good travel insurance before you or your family goes to Mexico.   My greatest concern however right now is the corruption and cover-ups.   20 tourists are missing today in Acapulco.  I have great concern for spring breakers especially in the Playa area.  Crime and corruption has gotten so much worse in the last few years.

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Name:  Sandra

September 28, 2010

Message:  My 19 year old daughter has been invited to spend 10 days with her childhood friend in Puert Vallarta. Her friend's grandmother and father will be there. They will stay at the resort. Do you think it is safe for her to go? She is level headed. doesn't drink but I am concerned when I read the reports. Please let me know ASAP

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Name:  Lori

September 27, 2010

Message:  I live in Oklahoma and it seems Cancun is the place to go over Spring Break for kids.  With the tensions between the U.S. and Mexico so high do you think it will be safe in March 2011 for all these kids that are heading to Mexico?

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Name:  Teresa

September 17, 2010

Message:  My heart goes out to all of the families on your site. Thank you so much for all of the info and link. It so scary that these people have a total disregard for human lives... :(

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Name:  Macie

August 31, 2010

Message:  These stories have me so scared and worried for my family and I to go on our Playa Del Carmen vacation.  My husband, 19 year old son and I booked a flight & hotel (Riu mayan riviera At Playa Del Carmen). I just don't know what to do. We have saved for the vacation and would only be able to get back 1/2 of the money if we cancelled but I don't want to risk our lives for a few thousand dollars. The stories on here were horrifying and so sad.

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Name:  Beth Twibell

August 31, 2010

Message:  First, I must say that I am so very sorry to hear about the losses of your precious children. My eyes welled up as I read the accounts of their senseless deaths. My husband and I were getting ready to book a vacation for our family of 5 to Cancun today (the sale ends tonight at midnight.) After the deaths of 8 people today followed up with reading all of the information on this website, it feels much too risky to bring 3 young children into an environment where the emergency services are so inadequate. As a nurse, I cannot fathom the way these situations have been handled with basic, life saving help withheld. You sharing your unimaginable grief here is helping to open the eyes of countless families and ultimately saving lives. Thank you.

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Name:  valerie

July 28, 2010

Message:  I am hoping you can give me information.  My sister wants to go to the grand mayan riviera maya in november. I am told this is a resort.  She is asking me to go with her. I will not based on the news reports and the violence in that area, plus the sad articles I have read on your website of senseless deaths.  Do you know anything about this resort or the general area? Her "friend" has a timeshare at this resort and assures her it is safe. I don't agree. Any information you can give me about this area would be appreciated. I have sent her your website, but she is so niave and would be a perfect target for someone to date rape, etc.  Thank you so much for your time, and for posting  such a great website to inform us of the dangers of that area.

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Name:  Pamela 

August 21, 2010

Message:  Thank you for this site. I was doing my research about Mexico but I do not want to put my family at risk in an area not prepared for emergencies of any kind. My heart goes out to those who have suffered and shared their stories and my prayers as well.

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Name:  Gabrielle

July 12, 2010

Message:  Thank you so much for your kind and thoughtful message - It is incredibly gracious of you given the great tragedy your family suffered. I am so terribly sorry that your handsome, well educated and friendly looking son was taken away from you in such a senseless way at the beginning of his adult journey. I pray that God comforts and blesses you and your family in an ongoing way and that the peace of God that passes all understanding breathes healing winds into your family.

I was feeling very conflicted about Mexico as the actual statistics do not sound that bad and our son is studying Spanish but it sounds like the Mexican authorities skew the stats by falsely representing how tourists have died if they get reported at all. It is frightening that even the tourist town newspapers and police play along with the fantasy reports. I was awake last night with a strong feeling that it would not be wise to take the kids to Mexico even though Oaxaca sounds very beautiful and cultural with Mayan ruins and a colonial town.

Your email confirms to me that it is not a good choice at this time and I am looking into changing our travel plans to Costa Rica.

I thank you again for your kindness in reaching out to others and warning them of safety risks for tourists vacationing in Mexico - even at the upscale resorts.

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Name:  Venessa

July 11, 2010

Message:  i can't believe these stories that i am reading!  i am horrified!  my fiance and i are not sure what to do now.  we are getting married in october, and it is a same sex marriage. my parents are paying for the wedding, and her parents are paying for the honeymoon.  they have booked an all inclusive stay at the excellence resort and spa in the riviera maya in cancun.  should we not go and have them loose out on their money?!?!  i am scared since we are 2 beautiful women who will be traveling alone.  HELP! 

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Name:  Andrea

June 8, 2010

Message:  My husband and I were planning on a vacation to one of Mexico's resorts next year but after reading your site, we will not be going. It seems that if the violent crime doesn't kill you, the bribery, corruption or total lack of adequate of health care will. Scary, scary stuff.

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Name:  Meg

June 3, 2010

Message:  Advice wanted please. I booked a 4 night trip to Club Med Cancun for myself and my 9 year old daughter. I have never left the country before. After reading your website, I am afraid to go, especially since I will be alone with my daughter and there is no one to go with us. I do not have large sums of cash to buy our way out of any emergency. We are supposed to leave Mon. 6/11 and I don't know what to do. I am not a fearful person, but now am very apprehensive.  Should I go? I have learned from your website and others to beware of the ocean, and will not be using any taxis other than the resort arranged transport. I am really disturbed that it may not even be safe for me to be on the beach alone while my daughter is doing kid's club activities. Any advice you have would be appreciated

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Name:  Maria

May 24,

Message:  My heartfelt prayers to all for untimely loss!

THE CORRUPTION IN MEXICO, outweigh the so-call wonderful culture and people! DO NOT VACATION in this forsaken hellhole of a country!

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Name:  Charles

May 3, 2010

Message:  Thank you for this wonderful venue.  I cannot begin to tell you how shocked I was to see how many people in the prime of their life needlessly died.  The site allows the survivors to tell their story. Hopefully some good will result from our sorrowful endeavor.
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Name:  Ernie

April 30, 2010

Message:  I am so sorry for all of the tragedies, and the loss of loved ones. I bought a 10 yr vacation plan, we have used 3 of our trips and we have 7 left, and we do not want to go to Mexico. Our resort is beautiful and very accommodating however we still do not want to ever go to Mexico again it is unsafe, and very expensive not like it used to be. It looks like I am out several thousand dollars as if I do not book a trip every yr. I loose it..and I know of no other way to recoup my money...again I am sorry for your loss.
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Name:  Anonymous

April 9, 2010

Message:  I am a mexican girl, and I'm very sorry to know all the stories. Regarding the number of tourist that visit mexico every year, this cases would be very few BUT if you have the bad luck of beeing in one of those situations, you are right, you are in great danger of not receiving propper medical atention and is even worst if you have to deal with the mexican authorities who are very corrupted. I live in Mexico and receiving a fair trate from authoriethies is almost like winning lottery. I hope that if authoriethies doesn't listen to us, the mexicans, they start listening foreigners though is sad it would be only because they are afraid that their dollars go away. At the moment, my family and I are being extorsionated by mexican goverment and authoriethies, we are living in hell, fighting against a monster. I share your pain for your loved ones, and your frustation of dealing with Mexico authorithies. Please don`t make public my NAME and LASTNAME, because i am afraid t  hey would be even more unffair than now with us if the authoriethies find out Italked about them with you. I hope we all can find peace someday. Best Regards
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Name: Leslie

March 25, 2010 

Message:  San Miguel De Allende Mexico Is in the middle of the state of Guanajuato.....Crime is a natural occurance...Reverse discrimination based on the color of your skin. I bring a good heart and mind with me....I can no longer continue making lemonades!!!! Goods and services....No Better business Bureau or Police protection for Americans Rights in Mexico...Now, How are we In the US going to deal?
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Name:  Anonymous

March 1, 2010

Message: I lived in Tampico, Tamaulipas Mexico for about 5 years in the late 80,s. I’ve been to over 60 countries in my life and Tampico is just about the most corrupt of them all. I have friends still there and they report to me that the Tampico traffic cops (transito's) are still robbing people all day long. They haven’t changed yet. I wouldn’t live there if someone gave me a mansion to live in for free.

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Name:  Fred

February 14, 2009

Message:  How sad all these needless deaths are my sympathy to the families. My wife and I have traveled to Mexico eight times now, and yes you are correct people need to be aware that Mexico is not the US. People need to research their vacations, be responsible for themselves, (maybe hard for some used to the gov't making all their decisions for them) use due caution and pay attention when traveling anywhere, especially outside the US. Excessive alcohol intake should be avoided also. FYI something new for this year from the Akumal CEA Lionfish are becoming more numerous along the coast of Riviera Maya (main danger poison fins) watch where you walk and while snorkeling don’t touch fish, of course these two hints are common sense.

Happy Travels,

Prayers for the families.

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Name:  P. S. Beecher

December 15, 2009

Message:  I was the individual who reported a problem with the Oasis Cancun on trip advisor, this month.  My comment is that I have traveled to Mexico, alone, as a single female, numerous times without problem.  People need to understand that Mexico is not North America.  This country is dangerous for its own people as well.  People should realize this before they elect to travel there.  It is also a country full of wonderful people and wonderful culture.  despite my experience in November I am going back at the end of the month, alone.  My sympathies for the individuals represented on this site, but I think it is ethnocentric to expect the same social, legal, and cultural experience when you step outside the borders of your home country.

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Name:  Ron

December 5, 2009

Message:  I am a private investigator who has done many cases in Mexico. We also do executive protection. I can tell you one thing. the tourist areas are the worst as far as accidents and crimes. The Mexican Police are very corrupt.

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Name:  Alyson

November 5, 2009

Message:  I just found this website by mistake and thank god I did. Firstly my deepest condolences goes out to everyone who lost a loved one. I have been invited to stay with a pen pal in Michoacán, Nayarit next summer. I recently asked her about the kidnappings, safety/dangers and she laughed and said I was worrying over nothing but I've read too many negative stories in this last 10 minutes to convince me otherwise. I think I'll go elsewhere next Summer.

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Name:  Samantha

October 9, 2009

Message:  God bless your families. The video made me cry. Thanks for the awareness.

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Name:  Matthew

October 22, 2009

Message:  Hello, my name is Matthew and I am set to complete my field study in  the Yucatan next summer in 2010.  I have read the tragic stories here on your site and my heart goes out to you all.  I have been searching for safety info on the Yucatan but I haven’t turned up much.  Do you have any information and what are your thoughts on safety in the Yucatan.  This trip will be with my college, students/professors.  I am a 34 year old male.  Thank you so much for your time and for the website.

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Name:  Anonymous

September 16, 2009

Message:  I feel saddened by the loss of all these people that I’ve read their stories on. yes its true, Mexico has turned into corrupt place, but it is not the only place people have been injured in or have died in.   some of these deaths have been accidental. Travelers should be careful anywhere they travel. in 2005 I vacationed in Jamaica and my friend, her older sister and myself fell off the banana boat into the ocean.  My friends sister injured herself fracturing her clavicle, the staff in our hotel were not much help and would not assist us. the night before we were assaulted and if it wasn't for one of the locals, I don't know what would have happened to us.  What my point is, is that Mexico should not be the only country to blame.  Maybe this website should  be changed to vacation awareness only  instead of just attacking one country.  That’s my personal opinion. I respect what you’re doing with this website and I encourage you to continue spreading the word, but it would be nice if you included all the places people travel to and not just pin point one. 

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Name:  SHAWN

August 15, 2009

Message:  Our daughter, age 21, is planning to travel to Mexico (Mexico City and points south)in September, for 6 weeks. She plans to travel alone, back-packing and using what she calls "1st class public transportation."  My wife and I have provided her with information about the dangers, but have been unable to convince her that this trip is ill advised.  Any thoughts or advice would be greatly appreciated.  Thank you,

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Name:  Kathryn

Date: 9/13/09

Message:  Dear Ms. Webster (please forgive me if I'm mistaken on this), I'd like to offer my condolences on your terrible loss, and those of the other families.  I've been living in Mexico for 3 months with my young son, and have already experienced a pool with dangerous suction, that caused me pain, and would definitely have trapped my son's hand or foot.  My boyfriend, son, and I have also been robbed, and laughed at by the police.  We have traveled extensively on all seven continents and are not marshmallows, but our worst experience of all of these places has been Mexico.  I am an attorney with degrees from Dartmouth and Columbia Law, and would like to do something to help.  I think that if people research Mexican vacations on Amazon and find a book about these risks and the callous indifference of the Mexican officials, it might have a substantial impact.  I'd like to hear your thoughts on whether collecting these stories in book form, as well as reports on US/Mexican policies, and recommendations for change, might be helpful.

Best regards,
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Name:  Debbi

August 29, 2009

Message:  Sad to hear of the things that have happened in Mexico, but not surprising. It has turned in to an evil place! We live in Tucson and read about of border violence and what spills over in to our state on a daily basis.  The last time we visited the border-Nogales-was almost two years ago, as friend wanted to say he had visited Mexico. As soon as we crossed in to Nogales we made a trip around the block and returned back into the US. We got a very very bad vibe about the place. Posting incidents on Trip Advisor is a very good idea!

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Name:  Bridget

August 8, 2009

Message:  hi    I  read  your  stories  and  that  is  so  sad  about  Nolan and the others  who have lost their loved ones,   Mexico  has  a lot  of beautiful places to visit,  but  unfortunately now is not the time  to be visiting  with all that is going on,  but when u visit other countries a lot of times,  u just  have to be aware, may God bless the families 

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Name:  Sherry

July 18, 2009

Message:  7-18-09 / Was thinking of a Cancun vacation, visited the travel sites; great deals!!  Told my husband when he got home where our vacation would be to; he hit the roof!!! He brought up the government warnings for Mexico travel site. Me, trying to prove him wrong typed in Mexico resort travel; FOUND YOUR SITE!!! I have been reading through for hours now; I am shocked. I'll never think about going to Mexico again; ever!! This needs to be on NATIONAL AND INTERNATIONAL NEWS!!! I'm going to encourage everyone I know and meet to STAY AWAY FROM MEXICO!! and inform them of your website!!!
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Name:  Felicia

June 30, 2009

Message:  I am currently fighting my ex husband who has a trip planned to playa del carmen on July 23, 09 and is asking that I Sign affidavit to allow my children into this country. He has set up a court date to fight me on this. I will have to hope that a judge will see my side. I am scared to death. Any information besides this website that anyone can help me with would be greatly appreciated. At this point I would welcome anything. Thank you to those who put this site together. I have contacted my local news stations to make people aware. thank you again so much. My heart goes out to those who have lost loved ones.

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Name:  Mercia

June 21, 2009

Message:  I'm sorry to hear of your loss and commend what you're doing with this website.  I do however feel if you are only going to concentrate on US citizens as victims, you might be losing some of your potential 'audience'.  I believe it isn't only US people being targeted and getting this sort of treatment, so if it was 'opened' up more, i.e., telling EVERYONE not just Americans that it isn't safe to travel, you'll get more people reading your message, and you'll be helping other families as well.  This is not a criticism, I'm living in the UK, but am originally from South Africa.  My husband is in Mexico for work and I'm petrified. 
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Name:  Josh

March 24, 2009

Message:  Heard a phone call about this site on the Howard Stern show this morning. Are you aware of the death of singer Kirsty MacColl - here is the wikipedia link including issues regarding the lack of justice in this case.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kirsty_MacColl

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Name:  Wayne

March 28, 2009

Message:  Thank you for this site.  I heard a call on Howard Stern's show on Sirius last week which brought me to your site.  I will disseminate this link to awareness sites.

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Name:  Amy

March 29, 2009

Message:  We recently returned from the Royal Solaris in San Jose del Cabo.

While we were there, a man drowned in the ocean. It disturbs me that I haven't been able to find any information about it.

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Name:  Nicole

April 15, 2009

Message:  My heart goes out to those familes who have lost loved ones.

Reading their stories made me sick to my stomach! The  disregard/disrespect for human life and for the dead is unacceptable and atrocious! They not only did nada, but they obviously hindered the people getting the help that needed it ASAP! THEY SHOULDA JUST GOTTEN OUTTA EVERYONES WAY WHO WAS TRYING TO HELP AND DONE THE WOLRD A FAVOR AND TAKE A LONG WALK OFF A VERY HIGH CLIFF!!!! I have posted this info on my myspace blog and cafemom as well. I just wish i could do more!

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Name:  Monica

April 24, 2009

Message:  Thank you for remembering Joshua David Gunderson. Who died in Mexico on March 24, 2009. Josh was our neighbor for many years .He was a white tornado, a beautiful person. It was reported that his death came from a blow to the back of the head said to have happened from a fall in his hotel room . Josh was a college level hockey player , He was graceful and athletic on the ice. The fall story is so disturbing. A translated version of events makes it more of a mystery.

For more information on josh go to www.goalsoftheheart.org

             ***A poem from josh***

Friends are like balloons. Once you let them go, you might not get them back. Sometimes we get so busy with our own lives and problems that we may not even notice that we've let them fly away. Sometimes we are so caught up in who's right and who's wrong that we forget what's right and wrong.

Sometimes we just don't realize what real friendship means until it's too late. I don't want that to happen, so I'm going to tie you to my heart. So I never lose you!" -Joshua David Gunderson

If only we had known that this beautiful person would die alone in mexico. If only we had known the danger.

rest in peace sweet joshua, we all miss you.

Monica and the Hanson place gang

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Name:  Maria

April 27, 2009

Message:  My deepest sympathy for all. My husband and I purchased a timeshare in Puerto Vallarta last year and this year we were going to take my 7 year old nephew with us.  I'm so glad i saw your website.  I won't be taking anymore vacations to Mexico until things change.  I sent your website link to all my friends.  Best.

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Name:  Melissa

April 29, 2009

Message:  I heard Nolan's girlfriend this morning (4/29/09) on the radio.  Her story stayed with me all morning and I had to check out this website.  I have been begging my boyfriend for months to take me on a tropical vacation, now I'm not so sure.  I think I'll stick with Florida!  I just wanted to say thank you for doing all that you have to promote awareness.  I have never heard one bad thing about Mexico until today and I very easily could have been a victim had I traveled there.

Again, thank you so much for your continued efforts to get the word out and please accept my sincere condolences on the loss of Nolan.  What I read in those stories is truly appalling, I'm so sorry for your loss.

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Name:  Jennifer

April 29, 2009

Message:  Thank you to Nolon's girlfriend who called into a radio station and told the story of Nolan's tragic death and gave this awareness website.

I will help spread the word of awareness- sorry for the loss

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Name:  May

April 30, 2009

Message:  My thoughts and prayers go out to all and every family that has gone through this. I am from Mexico and it is very to know that the people there don't have a care in the world for one another. These tragedies don't happen to just tourist but to the people that live there as well.. Children don't have the proper medical care and elderly people are left in the cold when it comes to health care. American people are very blessed to have hospital and people who train and study to save lives. Because in Mexico there is none of that. There is no such thing as a maternity ward or emergency room. It is very sad. In July of 2007 my grandpa was taken to the hospital alive and he never came home with us. The doctors never told us what happened. They never had an explanation and my mother is certain that they left him to die. To think of him going through such pain and not one person held his hand while he passed tears me apart.

God bless America...

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Name:  Will

Date: 3/24/09

Message:  Hey there. Just heard your phone call on Howard stern. I am from South Africa and i am really sorry to hear what happened. This is so unfair the way he was not seen to and that doctor should be struck off. Condolences to you and your family and god bless.

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Name:  David

Date: 3/24/09

Message:  I heard you on the Howard Stern show this morning and your story really hit home for me. I was in Cancun recently with my family for a wedding. My daughters are teenagers and going to college soon. I will be sure to keep them aware of the dangers of going to a foreign country and expecting it to be as safe as the USA.

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Name:  Kim

Date: 3/24/09

Message:  I heard you this morning on Howard Stern. I can barely get through these tragic stories without sobbing. My deepest sympathies to you and your family and all of the families who have lost a loved one in Mexico.  Thank you for making me aware of this problem.  I will not be vacationing there any time soon!

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Name:  Gary

Date: 3/24/09

Message:  Heard you on the Stern show. I agree, mexico is very dangerous.

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Name:  Jim

Date: 3/24/09

Message:  I sent an email to trips@applevacations.com regarding safe travel to mexico. I was surprised that they sent out travel brouchres in the OC Register. They lied and said that travel to mexican resorts is safe. They are padding their pockets at the expense of safety of Americans. This has got to stop! I have traveled and worked in mexico in the past. We don't and will not anymore because of the mexican attitude toward Americans.I thought you would interested. They are Apple Vacations.

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Name:  Jeanette

Message:  Please keep pressure on the U.S. State Dept. Travel Warnings on Mexico.  In 2008, I sailed Royal Caribbean, and I went ashore in Cozumel, Mexico.  I stopped in a souvenir shop, and a Mexican worker accused me of breaking one of the souvenirs.  I told her that I didn't break any souvenirs.  She called the Mexican police on me.  The Mexican police threaten to take me to court before a judge.  Other American customers on the cruise ship came to my defense.  I agreed to pay half the cost for the souvenir. If there is a broken souvenir, the owner will deduct the cost from the Mexican worker paycheck.  The Mexican workers wait until Americans come into the store, and accuses the American tourists of breaking the souvenirs.

If the tourists don't pay for the souvenirs, the Mexican worker will call the police on the tourist. The Mexican police will take the tourist to court before the judge. If the tourist goes before the judge, the tourist will pay 5 times more than what the souvenirs was worth.

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Name:  Traci

Message:  I wanted to thank you for your call last week. It was the first time I felt that someone truly understood what I have felt for over 10 years. My mother died "drowned" in Cancun May 2, 1998. There is nothing that comes anywhere near closure, just little bits of relief when you find someone that shares your pain. I want to submit my mom's story, and be part of any future newscasts,  documentary stories, and support the boycott of these vacation sites that falsely advertise accommodations with doctors and trained emergency staff. I don't have your number in my phone, so please call or email me instructions to submit our story.

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Name:  Jonathan

Message:  I have lived in and out of Mexico for 15 years also suffered unlawful imprisonment with no real trial. The system and the situation is corrupt in Mexico, if I can aid any family in further investigation of a family members death or disappearance plse. contact me. I am sure you already know the consulate will do nothing for the grave injustices committed by Mexico legal system and cover up.

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Name:  Darcy

Message:  Great site. I too am cancel my Mayan holiday. If I may add, it would be helpful to have the date of the posts, as to know how current the info is.

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Name:  LAURA

Message:   have just looked at the link that megerb posted, and I think

those accidents are totally heartbreaking, and I totally understand why people write on them to release their grief, and my heart pours out to them with every ounce of sincerity I have.

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Name:  Claudette

Message:  After we read the articles on this web site we (myself & three other mothers) decided Cancun was too dangerous to take three teenagers to.

The Air Tran and Fun Jet Vacations want us to pay cancellation fees, even though we feel our life may be in danger if we go there.  Is there any way to get around paying the cancellation fees, or somebody we can contact to expose this danger?

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Name:  Marissa

Message:  hi there: wow I am so very sorry to hear about the losses posted on this site. My  heart goes out to all of the families. I just booked a Cancun vacation today for our family (including two young boys). Fortunately I purchased insurance -  I will be canceling tomorrow. I am so very, very sorry for your losses. Thank you for posting your stories. You have made a difference.

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Name:  Kimberly

Message:  Thank you so much for this site.  My fiancée and I found out about it and canceled our honeymoon to Mexico because of the horrible tragedies depicted here.  THANK YOU.

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Name:  Chrisanne

Message:  Hi. I just read Nolan's story and all the others and I am deeply sad for your loss. I know losing a loved one is never easy, especially to situations that could have easily been prevented. My best friend and I had our Cancun trip booked for February 18-23 (we would've just been coming back).  But we had to cancel b/c my best friend fractured her pelvic bone snowboarding in Big Bear, CA. Well, we were nonetheless disappointed but figured, hey, maybe it's a sign that we weren't supposed to go for some odd reason. Then I started hearing on the local radio stations here (in Las Vegas) that there were numerous advisory warnings for spring break travelers about going to Cancun. Then I did further research and found your website. I was and still am shocked! I never knew any of this was happening, much less in a popular tourist area. I am now thankful that my best friend and I didn't go. It was perhaps indeed a sign! What I suggest is maybe listing ALL the resorts on your site, and then kind of like how Trip Advisor and Apple does, list each incident that has happened at that resort so it could easily be viewed and the warning easily displayed. It could even be rated like how those sites use their 4 star or 5 apple ratings. Perhaps you can put skull and bone ratings. I know this may sound devious, but who cares! They obviously don't care about American travelers so why should we care about their feelings?

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Name:  Debra

Message:  Great I got the MVA flyer after I've booked to The Omni hotel Cancun My daughter is getting married down there Feb 28, 2009.  She is already down went 3 days before the rest of us.  I can say that I was against this trip from the beginning.  Wish me luck
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Name:  Ashleigh

Message:  I think you should send word out to certain website like... www.studentcity.com

I know they do not want to lose business...but it would help if college kids knew what they were getting themselves into.

So many college men and women think they are getting amazing deals by being able to go to Mexico for so cheap or cheap cruises. But I have been reading about the Oasis Hotel on your site and that is one of the main hotels that student city offers their college guests to stay at. I just think it would be awesome if you could get your word out to a lot of the college-aged world! I am a college student and I believe that if others knew what was really going on at the hotels they are choosing to stay at based on what a college vacation site is saying...it would really change their minds and hopefully make them think twice! Thanks!

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Name:  Shirley

Message:  Please know how horrified I was when I heard you this morning on a talk show.  Your poor beautiful son!  We will never step foot again in that country of which does not value human life! All the best to insure your son did not die in vain should we get people to boycott this country.  My husband is with the Mass State Police and he was well aware of the crime in that country but had no idea of the inhumane tactics that are allowed to happen there! Give out those flyers at the trade show this weekend to make us all AWARE.  Thank you for sharing.

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Name:  Teresa

Message:  reading the stories here have just appalled me beyond anything I can use words to describe !!! I stumbled on your site while searching for info on vacations in Mexico. I have to say that I now will be vacationing in the U.S. Have you tried contacting Dateline ? 20/20 or even Oprah ? I agree that this really needs to be brought to the attention of everyone from Govt.

to the average citizen ! I am in disbelief that these travel agencies have pretty much just dusted these tragedies under the rug! Please anyway that we can help just let us know. We could start a petition or call some news agencies something.

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Name:  Laca

Message:  I was moved to tears as I read each the heart-wrenching stories of loss experienced by your families.  As a mother of two, I cannot imagine experiencing such a loss along with the inhumane treatment that followed.

My words probably provide little comfort for such immense pain, but please know that I pray for  peace and comfort for you and your loved ones.  God bless you.

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Name:  Elizabeth

Message:  Hello, I'm a Mexican girl who just finished college. I studied Hotel Management and I feel so sorry about all those stories. I want to apologize because I recognize that in Mexico there is a lack of security and professionalism that generates events like those you've experienced.

Unfortunately Mexico's Government never acts as it should, we have people non prepared governing us and working on their own without helping this country!!! I feel terribly mad about all of this and I hope some day it changes, I hope that in a future we count with a responsible government who really cares about all matters concerning security,tourisim,  education, services, health, etc.

If you need something don't hesitate and coma back to me. I remind at your disposal,

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Name:  Heather

Message:  I am Christina Polifroni's Aunt - Christina's story is the  first one listed under 'victims'  I'm curious to know how you found out about her story and also, what we, as Canadians, can do to help spread the word, or get safety standards changed (or implemented) in Mexico.  I look forward to your response.  We still live in shock over the news of Christina's death.

Thank you for this website.

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Name:  H. Pierce

Message:  So glad that this site exists and so sorry that all of these vacationers lost their lives.  Our town owns land in Mexico and send kids there on trips every year without giving parents this information.  I will be sure to forward the link to your site.  Thanks for making the public aware!

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Name:  Shelley

Message:  This is a highly disturbing web-site. Is everyone aware of the progress of the North American Union which is well underway?  I studied it in my economics class and have been amazed that no one seems to know about it.  The U.S. and Canada will both be merging with Mexico and having open borders.  Lovely thought that we will be merging with such a corrupt country as Mexico.

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Name:  Andrea

Message:  I was sick to my stomach after reading about the Nolan family tragedy. What kind of monster would stand by and not administer help to a young man and let him die.

My daughter and I were planning to go to Mexico for medical treatment this week. The facility is in Rosarito Beach but our hotel on an isolated highway. I had to press the patient coordinator for the right address so I could research the hotel location. I called the hotel and found it has a 30% occupancy since the rise in gang wars in Mexico. I also was told that Rosarito Beach is "perfectly safe but later researched the web and found the hotels and beaches are void of tourists.

I would like to believe the best in people but getting straight answers about my trip was hard.

I think they want our money and don't care about our safety. I think as Americans we need to send a message to Mexico. We will not travel there under any circumstances. I think they need a wake up call and then maybe we will see some changes.

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Name: James

Message: I came across this website through a link from ANOTHER article on violence in Mexico. A lot of the stories seem to surround vacationing in Cancun. I recently came back from Cancun, and after reading all these stories, I’m sadly NOT surprised on what people have written, or what has been written on other websites about crime and violence in Mexico. Mexico is an absolutely beautiful country, with a diverse culture. But unfortunately, crime is prevalent throughout the country and this is not caused simply by the growth or offshoot of drug violence among drug cartels, it is caused by a lack of respect and/or disregard for human life, poverty and low wages, weak laws and the unwillingness of the government and police to enforce all laws, all the time. Add to the mix a history of corruption by the police with low salaries and some indifference to “Gringos” and foreigners. Many people say that crime can happen anywhere, anytime. That is absolutely true. The difference with Mexico compared to other vacation destinations, given the factors I’ve listed above, is that your chances of being a victim of crime or horrible circumstance are substantially higher. From a personal standpoint, Mexico is just plain dangerous.I have served in the military and I have traveled to Cancun, Cabo San Lucas, and Mexico City. I would like to offer some tips, if you feel the need to absolutely vacation in Mexico:

1. Everything looks wonderful on the Internet: Hotels, Resorts, Beaches, Night Clubs, etc. Travel and Hotel websites, local Tourist Boards, will not tell you the dark side of their operations or any information on crime, do some research before you book a hotel.

2. Consider booking with a hotel chain that has a worldwide presence and reputation. It may cost more, but their overall standards and security may be better than a local or lesser known establishment.

3. Travel in groups, always. It may be tiresome to drag an entire group everywhere but you will be less likely to be accosted by criminals and business owners trying to nag you into buying something as you are sightseeing or window shopping. Also, never let someone from the group go anywhere alone, even back to the hotel room because they forgot something or they want to walk along the beach at night. A bonus is if someone in the group knows CPR and basic first aid.

4. Don’t draw attention to yourself. Keep the flashy jewelry, wads of cash, and extra charge/credit cards at home. If you need cash, most hotels will have an ATM or will let you draw cash at the front desk. Also, ask for small bills. If you become the victim of theft, the person reaching into your wallet or purse will feel what appears to be a lot of cash and will be more likely to leave you and the scene of the crime quickly. A majority of businesses also accept credit cards, consider using those also. Consider keeping one credit card and/or travelers cheques secretly hidden in one of your suitcases back at the hotel.

5. Keep quiet. People will always want to know where you’re from, and will probably already you are from the U.S. or Canada when they hear you speak English (or the native tongue of your country). However, don’t disclose more about yourself than necessary. For example: when you have arrived or when you are departing, what kind of work you do, what your plans for the day are, don’t even say you’re lost. It can be very easy to get lost in a different city, if you can’t obtain a clear map of a city try to get a good tourist map. It will have all the landmarks and points of interest on it and you can work your way back to the hotel or from where you started from.

6. Beware of your surroundings - all the time. Who’s following you, who’s out of place, what doesn’t seem or appear right. Gut feelings are usually right!

7. Visit the U.S. State Department for the latest travel advisory and take the time to complete the Travel Registration section. Before you leave the U.S., make a photocopy of your passport and drivers license and leave them with some your trust or they can be easily found. Should anything happen or you have a problem, the photocopies provide specific information about you that can be forwarded to the authorities.

8. Fight Back? My advice is do whatever you need to do to save your life even if that means fighting back OR not fighting back. But is fighting back or escalating a situation worth the 100 pesos in your pocket? Probably not.

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Name: Carlos

Message:  I am from Mexico. First of all I have to say that I feel really sorry for what the families on these stories have experienced. I felt really angry about it and sad because I know it's true. The southeast of Mexico is the poorest region of the country. People have very little education (if

any) so I wouldn't count on a hotel employee to give first aid to someone needing it. What I would recommend, if you decide to travel to Mexico, is to buy private medical insurance. Don't waste your time asking for an ambulance or looking for a doctor. Just call the emergency number of your company and they will send you a private ambulance and take you to a private hospital.

That's your best bet. Even I that live here have never used public hospitals in my life (I have heard horror stories). Following your common sense and being aware that you are not in the first world, you could really enjoy your trip to Mexico. My deepest sympathies to those who have lost loved ones.

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Name:  Eileen

Message: Thank you for this website.  I had no idea that this was going on and am shocked by the stories.  We had planned a trip to Mexico, however, there is no way that I will ever consider going there.  Thank you again.

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Name:  Gerardo

Message: I just found your Webpage today. I can't describe how bad I feel to know that many people suffer here in my country. As a Mexican, I have to find the way to fight against this from here. I love my country and I know there are a lot of people whom are fighting too. Please receive my condolences. Now, you have a friend here trying to change this beautiful country for us and for everyone.  Best Regards, Mexico City

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Name:  Marlene 

Message:  Mexico is going through a seriously dangerous time. If the law abiding citizens (because we do exist) that do now CPR, that would've help, that would not lie, are in constant danger, imagine a tourist? Travel in your own country! It is beautiful! A simple trip to New England is full with marvelous nature sights, historical places, art and science museums. And you will be safe. I love my country, but I am the first to admit its many errors and problems. It is now a war zone.

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Name:  William

Message:  As a retired military officer who has traveled the world, visiting many, many countries, I must reinforce the message here.  There are too many threats to list in a lot of countries.  I cringed and sighed when my nephew decided to vacation in Mexico.  Young people just do not always exercise the best judgment, and their lack of experience leads them to believe they are safe, when they are NOT.  If one just HAS to go to Mexico, they should establish firm rules about going out in groups, and watching out for each other.  I have been in Mexico many times, from Acapulco to Mexico City to Tijuana.  I would not go south of the border these days....too dangerous.

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Name: Anonymous

Message: I read thru your entire website and literally have a hundred comments to make. First, I am sorry for the loss of the loved ones on your site. May they go with god and may the families find peace to continue with their lives. Second, thank you for building a website to collect information on vacation deaths in Mexico. I have a personal connection with five deaths in Baja and could not confirm them until I found your link to the Department of State website. Although that information is not 100% accurate, at least it is there and they did happen. I am sure that these deaths were also publicized in the local Mexican newspapers, but searching them is next to impossible.

There are several competing interests which are at odds in the tourist business. You have the vendors who are doing the best that they can to provide a service, make a buck and continue to live in the community. Although it may seem unregulated, bad news does affect business. The police do investigate and sometimes vendors go to jail for multiple abuses. The police have their own political issues they have to abide by; theft, traffic, tourists, locals, the gringo community, their bosses, drugs, guns, training, on & on. And, priorities seem to change weekly.

The medical community can be great as long as you don't have an emergency. And, the police investigation may take priority over accident response. Hence, the reluctance of bystanders to assist in life saving techniques, especially when hospital response is extremely slow.

Firefighters: they are poorly trained, paid & equipped volunteers. In fact, the place I stay counts on neighbors and buckets. And, the hospital is three hours away if the car starts.

In Baja you have the opportunity to enjoy 2000 miles of largely unregulated coastline. You can fly down the 1000's of miles of dirt roads at triple digit speeds. And yes, you can drink yourself into a moron if you desire.

Just remember, official help is almost non-existent. And, if you are in a tourist area, first responders are more likely to be thieves & rapists than other parts of the country.

The risks are greater and the rewards can be bountiful. Be vigilant, use a lot of common sense and enjoy your vacation.

I was going to recommend that you should separate out the drug & gangster deaths from the safety related deaths involving bonifide tourist activities. Although they seem unrelated, it would be difficult to differentiate even though regional problems seem to stand out. You might like to add something on traffic awareness. Their highway habits are much different from USofA.

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Name: June

Message: How very tragic for your family and all others involved. I will let as many people as possible know of this. I pray that my grandson, who is in college in San Diego will stay out of Mexico. I think he and friend have already visited, but hopefully it was his first and last trip to this terrible place. God bless you.

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Name: Dolores

Message: We have made plans with a travel agent to do a group land tour of the "Magnificent Copper Canyon, " Mexico. Relatives are concerned about our safety citing recent kidnappings and robberies in Mexico. We will be traveling by US Motor coach to Hermiosillo, to San Carlos to Sea of Cortez, to Alamos, to Fuerte & then a train ride into The Copper Canyon. What do you advise?

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Name:  Anonymous

Message:  My deepest condolences for Nolan's passing.

As hotel and resort editor for a prominent travel publication, I began traveling to Mexico over twenty years ago. For years my reports of the corruption and dangers were ignored and unpublished by this allegedly "unbiased" editorial group.

Perhaps there is some way I can assist in your cause.
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Name:  Daniel

Message:  I have been a Private Investigator for 36 years and have worked in all of the Mexican states regarding homicides-kidnappings and missing persons. if there is anything I can ever do for you please contact me. I have lived in Mexico for the last 22 years.

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Name:  Simona

Message:  I am really sorry for your loss, nothing can replace your son. I just want to thank you for putting this website up, I never imagined how backwards this country is. My husband and I wanted to purchase a time share in Cancun at a Starwood resort, but we backed out of it, didn't feel right.

Now I know why, and I am so happy that we backed out. I will never visit Mexico or go there on vacation, there are plenty of other beautiful places where people are treated with respect.

May God bless you and comfort your hearts!
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Name:  Wayne

Message:  Thank you all for sharing your tragic stories with the world. I have cancelled my trip to Cancun, not because of fear, but for retribution.

I have informed my travel agent, and the hotel of this.

Thank you
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Name:  Maria

Message:  I have forwarded this web site to everyone in my address book.  My prayers go to the victims and their families.  Have any pamphlets been sent to colleges?  Since Mexico is such a hot spot for spring break, I thought that maybe that might help.  If I can help, please contact me.
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Name:  Tracy

Message:  I provide tote bags filled with essentials when a loved one suffers a traumatic brain injury in Florida through all of our Trauma Centers here. Recently my son's friend fell from his balcony (tripped over the sliding glass door track and fell) and suffered a Traumatic Brain Injury while on Spring Break in Cancun. He was not drunk. Your website has opened the eyes of many regarding this issue but I feel you should open it up to not just deaths but Catastrophic injuries like TBI. Many more are critically injured and will be disabled for the rest of their lives than those who die.

This would inevitably be a much bigger website but also will allow the truth to be told. Injuries do not make the papers but those of us out here who know that thousands more suffer Traumatic Brain Injury or spinal cord injuries in Mexico should be added to your list.

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Name:  Kelly

Message:  I just want to first start off by saying how sorry I am for your loss and for the many other families that have suffered harm from traveling to Mexico.  I want to thank you soooo much for informing me and my family about the horrors that have happened and will continue to happen as we were considering a family vacation to Mexico in the next few months.  I am a mother of 4 young children and can't imagine anything this horrible happening to them.  I received your notice in our local coupon packet and just can't believe that these things can happen in this day and age!  I will now NEVER consider traveling to Mexico and will tell as many people as I can about the immoral and corrupt country that it is! I will keep you and the many others in my prayers! I applaud you for keeping others safe! Thank you again!

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Name:  Ryan

Message:  I was recently doing some research on ANOTHER canadian killed in mexico, and stumbled upon your website. I have been wondering for a while now if Americans had the same problem, what an eye opener! About 6months ago someone from our community (Geof Toews) "fell" off his balcony to an untimely death. There were anoth 6? canadian deaths in the last couple years that seem very odd. The entire way the country is ran is disgusting and i will never go back again. My heart goes out to all who have lost loved ones..

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Name:  Petra

Message: I had contacted you once before a few months back about a Canadian death in Mexico and I mentioned to you that I would let you know if I hear of any others.  During this weekend, I heard of another Canadian death in Cabo San Lucas, last Thursday night.  A 29 year old was shot 3 times in the head and his girlfriend was shot in the foot in their hotel room at a plush resort.

They are from the Vancouver area, British Columbia, Canada.  What is really weird is that this is being kept very quiet and there is only one website that has anything about it (the Vancouver Sun, which is a newspaper).  His name is Bouabal Bounthavorn and her name is Masha Heikali, aged 24 from Burnaby.  So the only mention of the whole ordeal is on this website, it is fairly long, but here goes: www.canada.com/vancouversun/story.html?id=ec09fd3f-3a8c-4203-9826-757342b604cb

If you have any trouble finding out more info, please let me know and I will see what I can do.

Thanks again, for your informative website.  I refer to it often and have told many people about it, some have decided not to go there on their vacation. Take care, Petra

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Name:  Chris

Message:  my family and i are going to the mexican riviera in june.  how do i register with the state dept?  do you have any ohter advice other than staying together? we are so sorry to hear your and other's stories.  the stories have made us think twice. thank you for your concern for others.
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Name:  Maria

Message:  Hi, Im a mexican citizen and I just found your site. Although I had to face the info you published with the pride I have for my country, Im so sorry to admit it is mostly true that Mexico is a dangerous country indeed. I have many friends from Canada and the US that come here every year since I was a little girl. Nothing has happened to them in their visits, and the people in town has deep love for them. They have become family to all of us. I really pray nothing happens to them in their future visits... I will really hate my country if it does (and it would be unfair to do so, as you can«t judge  the whole country and people like trash because of the fault of others).

Im very sorry for the loss of everyone who lost someone here... the whole world needs to become a better place, Mexico in special, but the rest of the countries too.

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Name:  Barbara
Message:  Why would anyone want to go to Mexico when the Mexicans are breaking their necks trying to get into the USA?
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Name:  Ginny
Message:  Thank you for honoring your loved ones by telling their tragic stories. I had not been aware of the dangers of Mexican Vacations until I heard Nolan's story. I will definitely spread the word.
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Name:  BJ

Message:  My sister in-law has recently had to deal with her son's untimely death in Mexico. She forwarded this webpage to me and I will be forwarding it to every single email address in my directory. After reading Nolan's story I can hardly breathe. My heart goes out to his family and friends. I will spread these stories and hope that a life can be saved and hope that no one has to ever go through this again.  I will next read 'How can I help?' to see what else I can do to help.

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Name: Charlene

Message: Hi. I went to the travel show in Boston MA and received a flyer for Nolan Webster. Went on your site and so sorry to hear all your losses!!!! I will never let my children go to Mexico or our family after reading the stories on your site my prayers are with all of you.

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Name:  Dana

Message:  Thank you for your services in exposing the unsafe atmosphere in Mexico.  I live in San Diego and will not even consider going to Mexico due to the very reasons stated on this site.  It's disgraceful how the Mexican govt tries to con people into going there through exotic looking TV commercials and other forms of advertisements.  I'll spread the link to this site to everyone I know.

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Name:  Anonymous

Message:  I used to travel to Cancun every year for about 8 years with my husband and kids. I noticed a huge change on our last trip I did not feel safe, lots of drugs offered, shady hotel workers.  We heard about a couple from Spain who were murdered near Tulum. We will never go back to Mexico.

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Name:  Heidi
Message:  I went with one of my friends to the Travel Show today in Boston. A man outside was handing out flyers and he handed one to me and my friend, saying it was about his son.  I glanced at the flyer and saw that it was "in loving memory of Nolan" and that made me wonder, so I tucked it into my pocket and figured that I'd check out the web site when I got home.  I just read through all of the story and am now in tears.  Mr. Webster and the rest of the Webster family and friends, I cannot say how sorry I am for your loss!!  I'm going to put a link to your site on my facebook page and will be emailing my friends about Nolan's story and your webpage.  Thank you for educating me about the serious dangers of a Mexican holiday, which I am no longer considering thanks to your educating me about Nolan.  Again, my sympathies to you,

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Name:  Lisa

Message:  Just want to let you all know my husband and I and some friends were planning a Mexico vacation.  But after doing some research and finding this website from a radio program, my husband and I have decided not to go to a place where we need to be worried about our personal safety.  We also feel to spend our tourist dollars in a country where the authorities are so obviously corrupt would be to support the current system.  The loss of your loved ones is a terrible price to pay, but this site is definitely an eye-opener.  I have passed along a link to this site to our friends, and will continue to spread the word to anyone else I hear of planning a trip to Mexico.  Thank you for taking the time to make us all aware.

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Name:  Nancy

Message:  So sorry for your loss.  Based on your website, I have cancelled my trip to Mexico.  Thank goodness for your website!!

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Name:  Paul

Message:  I used to visit and work in Mexico with my film crew in the 70's..was advised then of the crime, murder, dope, prostitution,robbing, mugging theivert, rapes,crimes of the police, etc. Mexico is a dangerous place..no person should ever Visit Mexico..ph

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Name:  Reg

Message:  I commend your website.  Canadians are dying in Mexico as well adn its being covered up. I will never go there again, period.

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Name:  Eddie

Message:  Hi, I am a mexican citizen living in canada and knew about this web site through a newspaper. I'm a travel professional and i would like to advertise mexico as a tour destination. I read the stories of the people that sadly passed away in the country and i have to say that although it little helps I am deeply sorry for all those sad cases and give all my moral support to the families of those people.

I knew about some of those cases because before i came to canada i was working as a tour guide in cancun so of course i got to know about some of those sad cases. Although it hurts i have to admit that many people working in the hospitality industry in mexico are people with no professional preparation and in most cases they learned on the way, the work the way they think it is right. They join the industry because it offers easy jobs. That is something that people like us with professional preparation in the industry have to deal with, working with improvised people that may have no passion for the industry. I love my country of course and still think that is a country worth visiting, but i love it with my eyes opened, It's nice when people tell me they  visited the country and had a great time, but it's important to be aware of all these situations, I really think there should be a change in the way the run hospitality in the country, it should be given more importance and respect. I want to encourage people to go to mexico not by selling a wonderland but by selling what it is, wherever you go, you always have to know the truth about what's going on there, i wanna make sure just like you, that the people that visit the country have a great time.

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Name:  Derek

Message:  Thank you for your great website. I live in Calgary, Alberta, Canada, and know too well the horror stories from Mexico, too many unexplained deaths and cover ups. And now Canadian Brenda Martin (i think this is her name) is incarcerated for 2 years on phoney charges. You are guilty before innocent down there. Too many Americans as well have been treated horribly. Hope less people travel there and see the truth for what it is. Thank you again and best wishes.

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Name:  Larry
Message:   I do agree and this year decided against Mexico as my sun and sand. There are better and safer countries down south to visit and so I did.
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Name:  Craig
Message:  Mrs. Webster, My name is Craig I saw your sons story on channel 5 tonight,, I have a younger brother with whom i am very close and cannot imagine what you must have gone/ are still going through.  The one thing i can't understand, is since there were multiple situations the same as your Nolan, why is this something that we, the unsuspecting public are really just hearing the story NOW?, I am so happy that you shared Nolan's story, and empathise with you having to re-live this huge tragedy, yet this is something that should have be so avalable to the general public, with Spring Break recently etc..Again, i am so sorry for your loss and realize this is something that will be with your family forever, and as you mentioned in Nolan's story, these resorts need to not only take american dollars, but be held accountable for the well being of all visitors, it seems so commonplace, yet I see it is not. Than you so much for telling your story, and again, my deepest condolonces.
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Name:  Ani
Message:  I commend you for the actions you have taken and are taking to get your message out.  I can't even fathom losing a child, but I can imagine what is driving you to try so hard to make sure people are aware of what is going on in Mexico.  Seems as though there's complete disregard for the value of human life.  I was considering a trip to Mexico, which I will no longer take based on your website.  It's ironic that I was brought to the website by a mailer in the weekly ads that I often just throw out....  Once again, hats off to you for all the various avenues of getting your message out...  Very sorry for your loss.
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Name:  Suzanne
Message:  I wanted to let you  you know that I saw the report about Nolan on the news last night. What a tragic and sad story.  My daughter is scheduled to go with a group of friends to Mexico on Saturday for her Spring break/graduation.  I did let her know about what happened to Nolan and that she should be very careful and told her about some of the precautions mentioned in the news cast.  I'm wondering if you have any other suggestions for me to relay to her.  Of course as a mother you always worry, I just would like her to be as prepared as possible.  Thank you. 
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Name:  Caroline
Message: This is a wonderful site and one that is desperately needed.  I am a very close friend of Melody (whom I believe you spoke to on Saturday).  I was with her the night JR died.
My main point comment would be that the lack of humane support for tourists in Mexico and their resorts is due to a deep seeded and embedded hatred for Americans in general, but most especially, white Americans.
The best advice you could give anyone on this site is simply to boycott Mexico and Mexican resorts.  The only thing that will 'wake them up' is a jolt to their bottom line. God bless you for this site.  I will make it a regular stop in my internet travels and will us it as a vehicle of learning for my friends and loved ones.
My prayers are with you.
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Name:  Tiffani
Message:  I know you have been forwarded the story of JR Adams and I am begging you to put it on your site. His death was the most horrific tragedy ever experienced by our family and people have got to know...Mexico is NO VACATION!
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Name:  Derek
Message:  Thank you for your great website. I live in Calgary, Alberta, Canada, and know too well the horror stories from Mexico, too many unexplained deaths and coverups. And now Canadian Brenda Martin (i think this is her name) is incarcerated for 2 years on phoney charges. You are guilty before innocent down there. Too many Americans as well have been treated horribly. Hope less people travel there and see the truth for what it is. Thank you again and best wishes.
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Name:  Jen
Message:  I am very sorry about what happened to your son. My friend JR Adams had a very tragic death in Mexico as well. His death hit us all very hard. He was a great man of God and an all around great person. This some what comforts me because I know where he is now and I can only hope that, that will bring you some comfort as well. JR also was a true friend and a true one and only and Mexico took that from us. So I just wanted to let you know that I am always spreading the word about Mexico. So if it's ok I would like to be able to use your son's name as well when spreading the truth about Mexico and the tragic and horrible death(murder in my eyes and his Mother's) of my forever good friend JR. Again I am truely sorry and my prayers are forever with you and your family.
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